CC#109: Communication, Culture, and Beyond w/ Shawn Henderson - Hays HS, USD 489

The 2024 Kansas Secondary Principal of the Year, Principal Shawn Henderson of Hays High School in Hays, Kansas, joins the show and discusses the challenges and triumphs of opening a new school building and shares insights from his dual role as a principal and project manager, emphasizing the importance of planning, teamwork, and culture. He also explores the value of mentorship, and strategies for effective communication and time management within a school setting. Shawn also shares specific efforts he and his team made to protect time of teachers in the after school hours. This episode also demonstrates how the job of principal never stops...an unexpected fire alarm sounds within the first 7 minutes and Principal Henderson must go into action...check it out!

Connect with Principal Henderson
Email: shenderson@usd489.com
X: @hays489

Chapters:

• Introduction and Building Challenges
• Balancing Roles and Mentorship
• Communication and Culture
• Time Management Strategies
• Advice for New Principals

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Episode Transcript (timestamps are not actual due to editing needs)

Rick Sola (00:02.114)
Hello and happy new year. Welcome to the first full feature episode of the 2026, I guess not even really school year, it's just a calendar year. Today's guest is Principal Shawn Henderson, Principal of Hayes High School, USD 489, home of the Indians. Welcome, Shawn.

Shawn Henderson (00:19.938)
Thanks for having me, appreciate it.

Rick Sola (00:21.932)
Yeah, Sean, you know, we were just talking here before hit and record and I'm excited to have you on here. I've I knew most recently I saw you at USA Kansas back in May of twenty five. But then I remembered I definitely saw you again. You confirmed that that you presented at KPA conference either twenty three or twenty four. And I know I saw you then. And so excited to have you on the show. And not to mention also you were recommended by another principal who filled out a form in the past and put your name down as someone who should be on this show. So

I appreciate that and that you're willing to be here. As we record here, it's January 2nd. So it's literally like the first workday back from the holidays. appreciate you being on and taking the time here to be on this show.

Shawn Henderson (01:09.622)
You bet, away we go, right? Embrace the second semester.

Rick Sola (01:11.756)
Yeah. Yeah. And so actually that kind of leads into what, you know, I want to talk a little bit about today, but, know, it is January 2nd. I don't know if Monday for you is when students return. Where I'm at, it's actually Tuesday. We have another professional development day. As you come back, what's I guess staring you in the face right away, good, bad, or indifferent that you just know, okay, I need to have some attention on this.

Shawn Henderson (01:38.19)
Well, so we're really blessed that we opened a brand new school this year, brand new comprehensive 5A high school. And to go through that process and come out to the point that in August 12th, they gave us the keys and a week and a half later we're in school. And so to have a brand new school. So for us, it's kind of that opportunity to reset expectations. We're definitely looking at that process and protocol, all the norms that are associated with any school year.

and trying to maintain that. But for us, it's trying to make sure that our people feel really comfortable about our space because it is still very, very new. And so everything that we do is still kind of a first. And so we're just trying to, the word that I always use is calibrate. We're trying to calibrate how we do things. And so we, like you just mentioned, we have a professional development day, collaboration day, Monday, and then we'll have the kids Tuesday.

So those are the kind of things we're going to be talking about on Monday with our staff.

Rick Sola (02:41.528)
Great, I love that word calibrate as well. I think it's so important. And I always feel like the time's well spent if you need to recalibrate or at semester to take the time to revisit expectations. And that's a message I try to get to staff as well is don't feel like there's a rush to get back into content. You're gonna make up the time by taking the time right now to revisit. For our kids, it's close to three weeks that they've been in a classroom and to take that time is so important.

Sean, I gotta say, I feel like it's a major oversight as a host of a podcast. I did not realize that you were in a brand new building.

Shawn Henderson (03:19.214)
Brand new. I mean amazing. I took this job five years ago and we passed the bond that first year. We spent a year and a half planning it, several years building it, and I tell people all the time this is a once in a lifetime opportunity to have this specific seat and to get to be in every meeting and the design process and all of the things that go into this. It is a blessing. I will tell you there are days that it's, ooh, I have learned a lot.

about getting a staff ready to and a community ready to embrace a new building. But it has been incredible to say the least.

Rick Sola (03:54.905)
So did you shut down a previous building to then move into this? Or is this a Brandy Heisman?

Shawn Henderson (04:00.418)
Yeah, so we built, it's brand new. We built it next door to our high school. so talk about crazy, I'm gonna send some goodwill to my friends next door. Our former building has been gutted the last six weeks in terms of updating it. And they start school on the sixth with kids. So they are starting, they moved over the Christmas break, the middle school, into our former building. So that is a.

Rick Sola (04:05.228)
Okay.

Shawn Henderson (04:26.69)
substantial move in their world. So bless their hearts. I'm sending them all the best thoughts I can. So our district has had, it's been an incredible bond and process and we've been a big part of that having a new school, but our friends next door are moving in and it's a lot. So I'll be thinking of them January 6th and us because we all have to share the same drive lanes. the community is going to have to, students, staff, parents, we're all going to have to work on.

the new parking with 10 % of our town all on one block.

Rick Sola (04:57.216)
Yeah, wow, what what an undertaking. I have seen recently a year ago, our district, we closed and then opened a middle school. And it was interesting talking with that principal, some of the things that came up as far as, you when you open a brand new school like you're in right now, I'm assuming everything in it is brand new, the furniture and everything. But you're coming, they're coming from their old classroom where they have all their the things they like and they want to bring with them. Was that a challenge to say?

this does not make the move or did you have some parameters you had to put in place?

Shawn Henderson (05:31.43)
yeah, lots of parameters. mean, what was that UPS that said, you know, that phrase, said, we love logistics. did we love logistics. We had to, we had to embrace it. We had to talk about how badly we need the things from 45 years ago that have been in the back of a classroom. And, and, and to be honest, it's pretty cathartic and I don't think that it was necessarily bad for a lot of our people. I think the talking about it was horrible. The doing it actually ended up being, Hey, you know what? This is okay. I, I feel like I did get to clean up and clean out and

and it's really broader. May I have your attention please? they're testing something. I'm sorry. A fire has been reported in the building. Please leave the building by the nearest... Let me double check what's going on real quick. exit stairway. Do not use the elevators. Sorry. Hang on a second.

Rick Sola (06:04.898)
Well, you all right over there?

Rick Sola (06:11.666)
No, you... hey...

Rick Sola (06:16.982)
Yeah, yeah, we'll hit, we'll pause right here, okay? I'll just kind of hang tight. Do what you need to do. Nope, you're good.

Rick Sola (00:01.788)
All right, and we're back. Sean, you're back. Everything's OK. So let's start with that because I'm going to do a little editing here. But we just had a sounder go off and we were just talking about your new building. You know, this is a principal podcast. And isn't that just the way it goes that at any any given time you're going to drop what you're doing and you're going to head out and you got to take care of the the kids, the building, the staff or whatever. So do you mind catching us up a little bit? What happened?

Shawn Henderson (00:18.946)
Absolutely.

Shawn Henderson (00:30.903)
We just had something to do with the fire suppression system in the line.

And we've got guys here that are working on it. So I thought it might happen, but I had to go double check. So and especially, you know, going back to our conversation prior to the alarm is that, you know, when you have a brand new building, everything is new, every system is new. And so I've kind of joked that quite literally for the last X amount of years, I've kind of had two full time jobs. One of them was taking care of the business of this operation of building a new school. And the other was this, you know, small

side hobby called being a principal that we all know is all-encompassing. now about November 1st is the first time since August I was like I'm doing one job I'm the principal now and so it's felt good to to kind of roll back into that principal seat not project manager seat because it kind of occupied both there for a little while. I loved it though but it's it's okay to get back to the to the main thing so.

Rick Sola (01:32.446)
Well, like you said, it's a unique opportunity. It's a once in a career opportunity. And from everybody I've worked with who has gone through it, I think that's all they want is once in a career. They don't want to open a second building, but the opportunity to open one is really pretty cool.

Shawn Henderson (01:42.412)
Yeah.

Shawn Henderson (01:47.588)
Well said and I completely agree, yes.

Rick Sola (01:50.036)
I think where we left off was, and not to go back to this, but I just find this interesting because a buddy of mine did exactly what you did where they closed a building and opened a new one, but it turned into quite a bit of management and parameter setting of what can come with you from the old building. Was that something you put much thought into ahead of time or did it kind of present itself to you like, man, I need to really kind of establish what...

should and should not make its way over.

Shawn Henderson (02:21.782)
No, I'm quite a planner. My background's in band directing. And so I always took kids all across the country when I was the band director in Scott City. And I always said for every minute of a band trip, I spend an hour planning, right? And so...

to run that equation. don't know what the math would be, but we didn't do anything happenstance coming into this new school. Took a couple field trips, went and met with Piper, talked to Justin with that new school there. We went to actually visited Curtis Stevens from his time in Salina. He is a superintendent now, but we went and took a field trip and all we talked about was, so how did you move an entire school? How did you, what was that

process, what did it look like? And so kind of that would be, you're kind of something I always stress to principals is you're not the first person to do this. You don't have to reinvent the wheel. You'd be wise to reach out to people that are bright and have had this experience. And so I tried to model that. So I took a couple of field trips, took one of my assistant principals with me, superintendent, and we just picked the brains of really great people and said, how do we go about doing this? And so we felt like that that was time.

well spent and it helped things really, really run smoothly. Both for planning, getting rid of things, the way that we color coded all the rooms, the way that we color coded whole hallways, how the moving process went, how we ran the moving truck, I you name it. We tried to be very, very meticulous in our planning.

Rick Sola (03:56.477)
I love that you brought up the you're not the first principle to do this. You don't need to reinvent the wheel. Sometimes I think there's a maybe this is just me, but there's sometimes a temptation of like, you know, you feel like, no, this is my job. I need to I need to put together all of these things. Like, no, it's the whole working smarter, not harder, but tapping into those who have done it before. Surely there's things that did come up in those conversations with Justin and Piper and Salina, whatever that.

you hadn't thought of or didn't consider or, that is something I need to think about. And that's part of the value of the network, I would say.

Shawn Henderson (04:32.782)
Yeah, 100%. Absolutely.

Rick Sola (04:35.656)
You you touched on your band background and that was something I had. I noted when I watched you present at one of the conferences, I am a former social studies teacher and coach and my eyes were opened when I got into administration of the music world, the band world and the just extraordinary amount of work.

that goes into those programs. And you mentioned organization. The organization is incredible. So when you mentioned that, that was your background when I saw you present, that was my first, one of my thoughts was how valuable of preparation for you to now be sitting in this chair. I want to get to the road to the chair, but can you spend some time on just your band background and how that prepared you to be an administrator?

Shawn Henderson (05:29.228)
Yeah, I mean, I think it's, I love analogies, so anybody that works with me understands I use them all the time, but you know, as a band director, you are the person up on the podium, but you're working with all these individual...

We'll call them departments, we call them sections in the band, right? And so as a principal, I have to orchestrate all of my sections to operate at the best possible way, to create the best product, and to perform at the highest possible level for all of our stakeholders and our kids. And as a band director, it was just that. It was standing on the podium, being sure to work with each of the individual sections, taking time with the individual players, building teamwork.

Al talking about, you know, just being really intentional to make our ensemble get better week to week. And band world, just like the football coaching world or any coaching world, it is about your culture. And I think the thing that I benefited the most as a band director is working on that culture piece and the individual and really making sure that we're bringing everybody along with us and everyone's doing their best. And so, yeah.

I attribute a lot of my learning and knowledge for team building and culture straight from my band experience. There's no doubt about it.

Rick Sola (06:51.486)
What's an intentional piece of culture that you bring into your building? You could say at the start of the year, but even at semester, you've got a semester's worth of wear and tear, and you hope that people come back energized and invigorated to get moving again. But there's an important cultural piece and morale piece that's a part of any school. Is there anything that you do intentionally at the midpoint in the year?

Shawn Henderson (07:16.951)
So all points of the year I wear hokas.

I asked my boss, said, look, I can't wear dress shoes. I walk too much. I think one of the pieces of advice that I always had is that a principal needs to be visible. My mentor, Neil George, who was the middle school principal in Scott City, he was incredible. He caught me once and he said, Sean, I think you need more hallways. And I said, I don't know what you're talking about. And he said, you need to take your energy and your passion and you need more hallways than just the music wing of the school. And really the next day I signed up for

admin classes. had never even thought about being a principal. And just like the story goes that, you know, it takes somebody to look at you and say this is what you should be doing. I took it to heart. And when he told me you need more hallways, I went and I immediately got my master's degree so that I could have more hallways. And since that time, I've tried to be the same person that I was as a band director, which is people first, be where the people are, making connections. And so I try to

be around my school all the time. But I do joke, know, Hoka is the only way I roll. But I try to be visible. I mean, we are our admin team, our four principals. We are walking our school. We are trying to be where the people are. And I think that's, for me, the most important element of my leadership is to connect with everybody right where they are.

Rick Sola (08:41.78)
Sean, as a principal, now two months into my first pair of Hokas, I can't disagree with you one bit on the game changer that that can be. I have been in a situation where I was wearing a particular pair of dress shoes that were really uncomfortable. And just like you had the sounder go off, we had one of those on that particular day and we were outside in January for two hours going and I was walking in these shoes and I thought, oh my gosh, what am I doing? I do too much walking to be.

Uncomfortable.

Shawn Henderson (09:12.674)
Yep, agree. Yeah, so I always joke with people. Hocus is the way to go. So I'm not corporately endorsed by them, which would be great. I'd love to be, but no. But I do think that's good advice I'd give principals too is you got to have comfortable shoes because we stand, we walk. It's part of our job all the time.

Rick Sola (09:32.615)
It's been a very welcome part of the professional attire world that more and more comfortable shoes, tennis shoes type are being introduced. You it's interesting you mentioned the mentor that tapped you on the shoulder and because as you were talking earlier about opening your building, was drawn back to the most recent episode we had Courtney Dominy on and she is opening a building in August of next year. And so much of what you spoke about

was a previous conversation, but she also talked about that exact, that situation where somebody tapped her on the shoulder and she hadn't really considered it. And just like you did, and it just really, I've had a lot of conversations on here and I hear that so often where it is someone from the outside that recognizes an ability or some skillset that would really be applicable. And it's just really great to hear you say that. You mentioned band, so complete your road to the chair.

your principal of Hayes High School, your band director, fill in between what occurred.

Shawn Henderson (10:37.09)
Yeah, when I left Scott City, I went to Ellenwood and I was the middle school and high school principal.

there for four years and after those four years our family kind of felt like we were ready for a little bit of a change and so I always joked that I went back to college in that I was the director of field experiences and licensure at Fort Hays State and those four years, the next four years that I was at Fort Hays, I went from being a principal to talking to them every day, assigning student teachers, teaching classes in the College of Ed and it was just super eye-opening for

me to work with people that were entering the profession, but also to literally pick up the phone every day, call principals, chat with them about my student teachers, but certainly talk to them about being a principal. And it was a great job. I loved that job. But to be honest, I just missed being a principal. And so I told my wife that I wanted to be a principal again. She said, that's fine, but we're not moving. She loved her job. She works in the district here as well. And so she said, if you can find a place to drive to and

So I went to Russell, was the principal in Russell the year before COVID and COVID year. Had a great, great time there, learned a lot, worked with great people. And then the opportunity that Marty Straub, who is the principal at Hayes High, retired and I was already living here in Hayes and this was a job that I'd been eyeing a long time. And so when he retired, I came in and again, happened to be that was five years ago and that was the time.

that they that we passed the bond and again that kind of once in a lifetime opportunity to sit in this chair. So yeah it has been so I was four years in Ellenwood four years at Fort Hayes and five years here in Hayes and then as the high school principal and two in Russell. So I've got some years in administration now I guess across both high school and college.

Shawn Henderson (12:42.48)
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Rick Sola (12:43.092)
Yeah, that's great. And years in administration, and then there are times where it feels like, this is a brand new situation. You know, that's what's great about it, Mr. That's what I love about it is it's it's something new all the time. So that leads me to really what I consider like the anchor topic of today. You know, you are recommended for this, but this is something I really found valuable when I was at your sessions is you spent a lot of time talking about

Shawn Henderson (12:54.978)
Yeah, that's for sure.

Rick Sola (13:11.528)
how you protect the time of not just you as an administrative team, but also your teachers. What does that mean to you? What does that look like at Hayes High School?

Shawn Henderson (13:23.362)
Yeah, so I'm going to fast forward a little bit to this morning. This is the first time that I've seen our team, our admin team and Chris Dries, who is one of our assistant principals. He's our newest member of our team as our athletic director and assistant principal. He came in and he said, wow, I only received a couple emails over the last two weeks. And to me, that's triumph. That is a is a statement about our culture. Every time I present, I ask the room, how many of you control emails with your staff?

No one ever raises their hand. So I'm not trying to say that I'm world trending or setting here, but there is something that we started a couple of years ago where I, got back from Thanksgiving or it would have been spring break. I looked at our admin team, the four of us who were sitting there in the midst of trying to plan this new school and all the things. This was probably three years ago. And I said, team, we've got to quit sending emails late at night to our staff. It's not a testament that we're hard workers.

It's we're reaching out and bothering them in their life and if they read that email the wrong way we're going to pull from them energy and emotion that is not fair or professional in my opinion so so for the next nine weeks as we face the the fourth quarter I'm gonna tell you and again. I'm only talking to my assistant principals. We're done emailing after six o'clock at night We're gonna lead by example, and then we'll take it to the next year so we did and then

the following year and people noticed immediately. The following year we told our staff at the beginning of the year meeting and I have a graphic that says communication guide and it has 6 p.m. and it has 6 a.m. and we just said you are not communicating with each other via email from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m. We've now done that two full years and it has been probably the best thing that we could have done for our staff and

People can still get a hold of us, they do. You know, if there's an emergency, of course. But relative to email correspondence that...

Shawn Henderson (15:33.581)
I'm sure this never happens to anybody. Passive aggressive email that happens at 8.05 AM on Saturday morning when you're trying to drink your coffee. That we've stopped. I take it one step further personally. I don't even have the email notifications on my phone, especially over the weekend. But we've now built it into our culture that 6 PM to 6 AM. It is the entire weekend as well. So we are just not emailing each other.

And it's taken some practice, but we're getting there.

Rick Sola (16:06.676)
So Sean, was that something that was born out of maybe a certain situation or was it just, did you have a recognition like, my gosh, this has gotten out of control? mean, kind of what led you to make that decision?

Shawn Henderson (16:22.38)
Yeah, really it starts with me is that like so many of my colleagues, we just carry all this around with us all the time and we hear the things and we read the phrases or the memes or the YouTube that says, hey, you got to leave things at work or whatever. But that's not very practical for a person that carries the level of responsibility that we all do as a principal. And so as I carried those things around to an unhealthy point, I analyzed what's the thing that's causing me

the most grief and it's the emails, it's that passive aggressive.

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Shawn Henderson (17:56.591)
person that I don't have to work 24 hours a day.

Rick Sola (18:00.147)
That's a really good point when you send an email. could be the most benign, intent email that you send. Hey, know, question about whatever, but that lost, could get lost in translation and it's received on a Saturday morning. And what did, what did principal Henderson mean by this? This is my boss. I, know, and you, you, they're, they're stewing over it. And it was maybe a nothing email, just an informational type deal, but

Because I'm sure you've probably been in that situation just throughout your career where you've received something and kind of jolts you a little bit like, well, what is that? What's the real intent behind this? And maybe there wasn't anything, but you're stewing over it.

Shawn Henderson (18:39.542)
Yeah, exactly. so we tried to model it first, and now it's something that we're really proud of. And this morning when my assistant principal looked at me and he was like, look, he's like, it's amazing how few emails I've received. And I just smiled and I said, well, that's very much on purpose. And so I think that's a sign of our culture buying in and saying, yeah, let's try to protect this time.

Rick Sola (19:06.26)
Do you see any byproduct from it, like guess unintended consequence in a good way that maybe it's generated some additional problem solving skills amongst people? Maybe rather than first reaction is I got to email, take some time, pause on it, and either some problem solving occurred or have you been able to recognize that at all?

Shawn Henderson (19:26.572)
Yeah, for sure. The other thing that we do is, you know, we're a Canvas school, so we're running Canvas classrooms. We created a Canvas home page for the principals, so in this instance, we're the teachers of the Canvas page, and our students are the teachers. I'm sure other schools do this as well. But we call it the Hayes High Hub, and everything's on the hub. The agenda's on the hub, the resources, the handbook, the staff expectations, any resource that they need to be successful to do their job, we put on the hub.

And so one of the things that we've tried to do is that if someone emails us an information gathering email, we point them back to the hub. So not that we're trying to be passive aggressive or we're trying to not give them the information they're asking for, but if we're going to do it the right way and follow through with our Canvas page, we point them back there. So that's kind of something that we've also been trying to do.

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Rick Sola (20:26.876)
And, you know, kind of going back to the topic at hand, saving and protecting time with staff and teachers. You have a hub with information that's there. So someone is home at nine o'clock at night and they're trying to work through something. That's a place they can go.

Shawn Henderson (20:39.278)
Yep, 24 hours a day, yes. And then, you the other thing that we've tried to do that I share often is we do more meetings but for way less time. So we stand by this practice called Tuesday 10. And Tuesday 10 is a 10-minute faculty meeting every Tuesday morning. And it is from 7.25 to 7.35. And that's it, not one second longer. And for us,

It's been fun. I even run the stopwatch. And so somebody could say, wow, that's not very much time. I say, right. So the things that we share are really valuable. But that's not why we did it. To be honest, I started Tuesday 10 because I wanted to see all the faces of my staff every Tuesday morning. When I was principal of a 2A school, I talked to every teacher every day. It's not as practical now with 70 teachers. I try. But on every Tuesday morning, I know.

going to see my people and we try to save the email level things for that time as our important touch point. The other thing that we follow up with the Tuesday 10 is a winning Wednesday. I stole this idea from the elementary principals in our district and they they call it what I need now win and once I heard that phrase I went okay that's it I'm stealing it we're going to do win and so we do a winning Wednesday and we feed the staff every Wednesday.

fun snacks, healthy, not healthy, a little bit of both. And we put our counseling team there, we put the admin team there, we try to have a secretary on site, and we're basically like parent-teacher conference style where we kind of sit around and if one of our teachers need to come and meet with one of us, they can. So we, a real touch point to where they're like, hey, by the

this was really important when we had a brand new school, my new door is not locking correctly. So they could bring that to me on a Wednesday instead of emailing me. I've got my notes there, making sure that I'm covering things that need to be taken care of. And so that's kind of the way that we've been communicating. And I've shared that when I've presented recently. And it's really worked well for us. A, because people love free food. B, maybe they don't want anything. They just want to be around adults that are not teenagers to talk to.

Shawn Henderson (23:08.848)
come and eat some food, smile at a friend and leave and we found a lot of success with that and have really enjoyed it.

Rick Sola (23:16.36)
I really like the Tuesday 10 idea and we do a monthly staff meeting and there's times I refer to it as our staff celebration time, you know, because it kind of frames a little differently, but it really is for us a time to be intentional about recognizing and celebrating each other. But like you said, it is a time not just for us to see their faces and interact, but for them to see each other and especially in a high school.

as big as you are, you've got different wings and different things. You may not see that person. It could be early in the year, and you may not realize that person, who is this person that's maybe new to the building? And it's a chance to see each other and kind of have that camaraderie that we all have a part to play in this building.

Shawn Henderson (24:05.568)
Agreed and we start every Tuesday 10 with shout outs and and it's fun to watch the teachers shout out each other and I think it does and again talk about a positive school culture. I think it does bring that that level of pride and care and concern for each other, which is awesome.

Rick Sola (24:24.222)
So Sean, I appreciate you sharing all that. And as we transition here into the second half of the school year and thinking about maybe there's a principal who's in their first year or an aspiring principal, what advice would you give to somebody who may be going into their first, second semester as a principal or just advice in general as an administrator?

Shawn Henderson (24:47.714)
Yeah, so.

One of the great pieces of advice that my band director from high school shared with me, Connie Rickard, she said, don't create a rule that you don't intend to enforce. And I've used that my entire life, both as a teacher and certainly as a principal. And then my mentor when I got to Ellenwood is the great, great elementary principal, Eric Shugrin from Lindsburg. And he always told me, he said,

if someone starts a fire, they should feel the warmth of that fire. And I said, I'm not following you. And he said, Sean, I've watched you. You're really good at solving problems. You're so good at it sometimes that you solve it for the person that created the problem in the first place. And that advice really made me think a little bit. So, wasn't too long into my principal, first principal job, I went and listened to Todd Whitaker speak. He's a great writer on.

on administration and he has that great book, Shifting the Monkey, which I love the analogy of that. And he always talks about that the monkey, we all carry monkeys, but sometimes we pick on the people that are really good at carrying them. So you have a staff, you have that one person that's carrying all the monkeys, and then you have a couple staff members who are just pleased as ever that those people are carrying the monkeys for them. A great leader puts those monkeys where the monkeys go. And that analogy has been really profound for me.

And the other thing that Todd Whitaker says in his book, and I think it's great, is you should focus on your best people. And I remember that as a band director, is I could stare at 65 of my band kids, and I loved them all, and we were all trying to do this great thing, but I could see the couple kids that hated it. And for the first couple years of my teaching, all I could see was the kids that didn't like it. They occupied all my thoughts. Couple years into being a band director, it dawned on me that my focus needs to be on the people

Shawn Henderson (26:48.304)
that are really into this because they're the ones that are going to drive this bus. And that's the advice I would give to a newer principal is you've got to get with the people that are really buying into what you're doing because they're going to be the one that drive this bus the right direction. The others will follow. They will.

Rick Sola (27:07.988)
I wrote down your quote, if you start a fire, you should feel the warmth of that fire. Really, that's pretty profound. you know, it can kind of generate a chuckle, maybe even almost like initially cynical, but really, like, there's some value to that. I think about the times where I've had to feel the warmth of a fire that maybe I was a part of. That's how you learn. And that's how you adjust and correct for moving forward. So it's not necessarily

a negative thing, but probably an important valuable professional growth thing.

Shawn Henderson (27:41.867)
for sure. And if you think about teachers, all of us that are in education, we kind of like to avoid conflict, which I get. But the thing is, is that if I never ever get near the warmth of that conflict, I'm not going to have any resolution skills. I'm not.

I'm not going to be able to learn how to work through the things that are challenging. And I think what Eric did for me is he reminded me, Sean, it's OK that if there's conflict, you can help a teacher through it. You don't just need to use all your skills to make it go away. it really took a while for me to work through that in my head, what he was after. And I've shared that with people ever since, is that that's how people grow.

Rick Sola (28:23.059)
Well, that's empowering too, though, to hear as a new principle, perhaps, because I think there's that feeling of I have to solve everything and I have not done my job well if I didn't solve it. But to be able to know, like, step back and let a person kind of work through whatever situation with your guidance, that's probably the more appropriate balance of leadership versus just swooping in and taking over.

Shawn Henderson (28:47.084)
Yeah, and I think the best thing that I tell my staff is, it's completely fine if you use the words, I think it would be best if we engage Mr. H in this conversation. That's me, Mr. H, sorry. And it doesn't mean that you have not done your job. It just means that it's okay understanding that maybe the thing that you're working through, the parent conversation that's turning negative, of course it may not go well. That's just part of human nature. Then my boss tries to do that for me if a parent says,

something to me and it's okay for me to say, k would be best if we en in this. And I understand trust there. But when we are about human interaction, opportunity that things d that's okay. Um, and we c and think one of the wa our staff is to tell them through a situation that's to say, I'd really like to in this conversation beca

That kind of allows them an out, but it's then now they have someone else to work through again to get a positive outcome.

Rick Sola (29:56.392)
And that's a really good tool to give your teachers. Sometimes they don't know how to get out of a conversation they feel is going south and maybe then it gets derailed. But to be able to go to, know, I just think it'd be good to involve our principal. I think that's a really good tool just to have in their toolbox. Well, Sean, you have shared a lot and you've referenced a lot of really not just great things, but great people out at Hays. This is an opportunity. It's a state podcast here to brag on.

your people that you get to be with every day and the people of the Hays community.

Shawn Henderson (30:29.612)
Yeah, I mean, the thing that I, and I can't not talk about a brand new school. It's too real because it's right here.

what it takes to take a school and move next door into a brand new building that is just an incredible amount of work for our staff. Their level of dedication, their level of care and support and endless hours to make sure that things are the best for our kids is incredible. The timeline, of course, like all projects, got real compressed at the end. Our teachers had to put in tremendous amount of energy and effort.

to get the school year re what educators do. They didn't want the kids to kind have not quite ready for you exp we're gonna open this do and we're gonna make it h Ron Wilson has done a gre pace and saying we're go our people, it's the rig I've just been so incredi how hard our people in ou

and worked through everything's a first. We never had a home football game. We always played at Fort Hayes, so we had a first football game. We just built a softball stadium. We've always played off-site. We've never hosted a track meet. We didn't have our own auditorium inside the building. Everything is a first, which is exciting, but it means there's a lot of infrastructure that goes with it. And so, yeah, I'm just really, really, really, really proud of our team and the incredible work that they've done.

to make this place a home so quickly.

Rick Sola (32:14.099)
And everything you just described, the way you articulated your first football, home football game, and softball and so forth, what a great sense of community pride. You have a brand new, I haven't seen it, I'm sure it's a beautiful building that the community gets to see and be a part of, and to be able to see the evolution that led to that. And then now you've got a middle school, it sounds like, that's being renovated a little bit, and they're moving in.

awesome for communities to be able to go through. So congratulations to you and your people out there for getting through it and getting through all the, you you open the doors, it's not like everything's magical and brand new, just like we saw earlier in this podcast, you know, some things will continue to come up.

Shawn Henderson (32:58.966)
Yeah, for sure. And you just take your team and you just face whatever's there coming at you. And again, our team is Becky Hickert, who's Assistant Principal Fred Winter, who's another Assistant Principal, and Chris Dries, who is our Assistant Principal AD. And they've been helping lead this charge that has been substantial, but also super, super rewarding.

Rick Sola (33:24.925)
Well, awesome. Well, Sean, thanks for taking the time today and for coming back after some building needs that popped up. I appreciate your time. And I know it's a kind of a brief calm before we get back to the storm of the school year. But there's so many great things ahead, I'm sure. So all the best to you as you get started in 2026.

Shawn Henderson (33:46.818)
Thanks, you as well.